Awakening the Healthy Masculine

Healthy Masculine circles are rooted in sharing, deep listening, and skillful reflection. 

James facilitates multi-gendered circles to explore the Healthy Masculine, providing an opportunity for people of all genders to share, be seen, and to offer each other witnessing and learning. Participants explore the many meanings of "the Healthy Masculine" and honour one another's experiences in order to harness a positive masculine presence in our families, friendships, and communities.

Within this context, I hold a non-gendered conversation about "masculinity" is held, recognizing that "masculine" qualities are embodied by all genders. It is not a "male vs. female" conversation, but one that explores the masculine aspects of being human. These circles contribute to a cultural shift away from "right/wrong" or "good/bad" ways of 'acting' masculine, towards a balanced way of being, moving into a more authentic, emotionally-connected and life-affirming masculine consciousness.

By exploring and understanding how the immature masculine – or the shadow side(s) of masculinity – show up in ourselves (and are often promoted in society), we can bring a balanced awareness to practice and integrate the healthy sides of the masculine archetypes:

facilitation structure

James holds all-gendered circles in a way that creates safety, trust, and vulnerability by:

  • Grounding in “Council” format,
  • Using "Compassionate Communication (NVC)"
  • Exploring ourselves and witnessing others through gentle movement to embody masculine archetypes
  • Centring around short summary readings and the "Map" from "The Four Archetypes of the Mature Masculine"
    • Introduction – Summary
      • The readings are used to anchor the Circle, and tune-in to the personal explorations, and sharings in Council. 
      • They are not held as "lessons", they are not "taught", nor are they "truth", they are simply an anchor for the Circle.

As Circle sharing is based on participants' own experiences and heart centered explorations – in a safe Council format where vulnerability and trust are built into the structure – these Councils are not for offering advice, nor are they intended to be therapy; rather, they provide an opportunity to come together as a community to witness, appreciate, and explore with one another about the Healthy Masculine.

join a Healthy masculine CIRCLE to:

See my Healthy Masculine Blog and Resource Page pages.

  • Learn about & discuss masculine archetypes, and their shadow sides;
  • Gain deep connection through sharing life stories & experiences – within a rare all-gender circle; 
  • Listen to and learn from each other's joys & difficulties; 
  • Improve positive presence in families, friendships & communities.

This is an important time in human history: In order to address major social, environmental and political crisis, we are again being called to re-member, re-skill and co-mentor each other in our communities how to live in our Healthy Masculine.
— James Wood

REGISTER FOR an introduction CIRCLE

  • More Circles coming soon.

To enquire or request a Healthy Masculine circle in your area, contact James: Info(at)

Methods of Exchange



  • Initial Introduction circle of 2.5 hours:
    • Suggested fee of £15.oo
  • Series of 4 circles covering 4 archetypes, 2.5 hours each:
    • Suggested fee of £55.oo

Gift Exchange:

  • There are many ways we can support each other's wellbeing via monetary/non-monetary value, in both the short- and long-term.
  • No one turned away due to lack of funds.

Solidarity economy:

  • Additional contributions are gratefully accepted if you feel called to financially support James' offering of ongoing Healthy Masculine circles. 

Additional Healthy MAsculine Resources


Resource Page

  • Books, Articles, How To's, Organisations, and Archetype information


  • Reflections, Thoughts and Considerations Towards the Healthy Masculine